Monday, January 14, 2013

What I'd say to you if we were face to face

Hello there!
I hope that your weekend was restful, fun and just plain awesome!

I'd like to ask you out to coffee today.
You see,I want you to know more of my heart, more of my thoughts and more of what goes on in my world. This is a place of authenticity, so one of the ways for it to remain that way is if you know more of the
in's and out's of me. So talking over coffee is the perfect way to do that!

Let me tell you something you already know, the world ain't always sunshine and rainbows
{you remember that line from the new Rocky movie? I love that line and scene}
Even in the times that it isn't 100% sunny we can still inspire and encourage.
HOW?
By being true to what's going on, {this doesn't mean embracing it}
because guess what?
someone else, is going through, thinking or feeling the same thing as you.

When you know you're not alone, and can relate with someone who feels the same as you,
community forms. Where community forms there is power.
You can then join hands and move forward together.
So today I'm going to share the first few things that come out of my heart
as I would if we were sitting face to face and you asked me
"What's up? How are you doing?"

If we were sitting face to face I'd probably be smiling. Happy to be with you!
 I might begin by telling you that I'm so glad to be out, doing something different.
You see friendships in my life right now are stagnant.
 I've never been one to have a zillion friends, more like a few very close girlfriends. 
Right now I must be in the phase of transitioning into a new group of ladies,
 because I don't see my old friends, ever. I would tell you that it's hard for me to feel like
 I've tried and they haven't. (this probably isn't the truth, but it's now I feel)
So while this makes me sad I am really glad that I know God has a new lineup of the 
perfect woman who are to be in my life next.

If you asked me about homeschooling I would probably sigh and tell you that I didn't have much
fun with it this week and neither did my son. This week was our first week back from
winter break and it was rough. Our schooling goes in waves. It's either awesome or it
totally sucks for both of us. I'd probably then share with you that I really wish other
schooling options outside of public schooling did not cost $400+ dollars a month!
 I would then probably tell you that I find that price truly ridiculous! 

If you asked me about new years resolutions I would tell you about the different route I've
 gone this year, and instead of a long list of "to do's" I've gone with choosing a word to lead
 my year. The word I chose is intention. I would tell you that I'm so happy about what it's
 revealing to me. Already it has shown me many areas that I was well, FAILING in being
 intentional about, but that's ok. I'm happy to know. I've started putting intention into a few 
areas and it has felt so great to my heart. I have also been feeling the need to step into
 the next phase of where I am to be intentional. This excites me because it makes me feel as 
if I am making the next step into walking out my destiny. I feel like God is asking me "You really
 care about that? Ok, then what are you going to DO about it?" It's time to progress into more
 action and intentionally furthering what I truly believe in, that is exciting, and probably scary!

At this point if you and I were talking I'd probably feel as if I've said quite enough and
then eagerly listen to all that's happening in your world!

Thanks friends, for reading and hearing more of my heart today. Thanks
for sharing in my world. I appreciate your friendships, hearts, thoughts and prayers.

Wishing you a fabulous Monday!

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12 comments:

April said...

I absolutely adore this post. I've been struggling with the two sides of blogging -- the seemingly self-centered, narcissism of it all, that we celebrate how many followers we get and think people should really care about everything we have to say or write... mixed, of course, with this amazing opportunity to reach out, bear witness, offer support to people everywhere in a way that has never been possible before. Whew - I needed to get that off my chest apparently... and it is what I would say if we were having coffee :)

Love your word for the year. Good luck with the homeschooling and with deciding on another little one -- I completely understand the "holy crap" sentiment :)

Jessica said...

Love this post. Thanks for sharing.

Marci Smith said...

I wish we truly could have coffee together. You are an amazing woman. I adore your honesty on your blog. Recently, you posted a phrase that has invaded my heart...turning a mess into a message. I so needed to read that. My parents have never been ideal. I experienced many abusive situations. I received a terribly cruel letter from my father last week. I kept hearing your phrase in my head. I will take this mess and make it into a beautiful message about my true Father's love and grace.

Thanks for being so real and focused on Jesus.
xoxo

Jess said...

Thanks for sharing!

Friendships do seem to come and go in waves at times. It's always hard for me when I'm in that transitional phase too. That's why I try really hard to stay connected with Bible study or growth group or something like that. I've been in friend's transition mode for about a year now. But I think God has been using it to teach me to rely on him first, not the humans that surround me. :)

Enjoying the Epiphany said...

Hi! I found your super cute blog on the blog hop! I am your newest follower and was hopin' that you would pop on by my blog, hang out for a while, and maybe follow me back!

Hugs,
Sarah
www.enjoyingtheepiphany.com

Mariel Collins said...

This is amazing! you are an amazing friend, if only we could do real coffees:) Thank you for sharing your heart as always!

Stoltzfus Family said...

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Cat said...

Please tell me that one of these days we can really catch up with each other over coffee...in person....face to face! But until them lets catch up soon via text to something ha. Hope you have a great day...
Xoxo

Samantha said...

You are amazing! You sound like someone I would love to meet in real life! If only you were in Califonia :/. I feel you on the friends front, I feel like I don't has any. I mean I have family and they're amazing. I don't have friends I could call out of the blue or who are in the same situation as me. I need God to place some amazing women in my life!
So great having coffee with you! :)
Stopping by from the Monday link up :)

Jennifer McCarroll said...

Thank you for inviting me for coffee! I think I'll intend on ordering a green tea and then throw my hands up and order something that is more like an ice cream sundae and not regret it for a second.

I'd be there to respond to you by saying that I've gone back and forth between cycles and groups of people, and that saying yes to invitations all the time for a while can sometimes be a good way to see if you can find new people to click with. So thank you for inviting all of us from the internet to coffee so we can say yes!

We were similar in this year in our New Years' Resolutions. I felt really overwhelmed in all the things that feel like they need to be fixed in my life and decided to focus on trying to cook more ... and even though I've just made new sandwiches and a casserole just trying those things have lead to me tackling other things that were bothering me. Sometimes just focusing on one thing makes all the difference!

Amber Newberry said...

Thank you so much for joining me for coffee!! XOXOX What an honor to have you on my blog!

Stephanie Wolfe said...

Hey girlie thanks for linking up for Happies and Crappies but we'd really like if you only linked up posts specifically to the link up instead of other posts. Thanks so much!